manders0724 Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 okay so my and SO have been together a year as of yesterday. im not the kind of person who makes a big deal of anniversaries, well, i didnt, but this was my first one year! its amazing the feeling of wow, we have made it so far even after all we have been thru. i was so happy! im just wondering why guys dont think of it as meaningful as i dont know, i do? i think its a great accomplishment for us after all we have been thru and to still have made it this far and know that it has just been getting better. so guys, do anniversaries mean anything to you, or is it just another year?
str_Ay Posted May 17, 2007 Posted May 17, 2007 according to my ex bf, it's just another day according to my current bf, its another day to cherish the person u care about more and to celebrate any accomplishments and baracaded through some of the tough times
Diamonds&Rust Posted May 20, 2007 Posted May 20, 2007 It's really hard for me to remember what day something happened a year ago.
Walk Posted May 20, 2007 Posted May 20, 2007 I never know what day to call the "One year anniversary". Is it the first time you go out together? The first kiss? The first "I like you a lot"? The first "I love you"? Or the first time you have sex? Which first do you pick? Anyway, my bf seemed to put special emphasis on a particular day, and I didn't realize he felt that way about that day. He was pretty dissappointed when the day rolled around for the "one year" anniversary. He'd never mentioned how he felt about that day prior to then. I, of course, was clueless. And he ended up dissappointed and feeling like I didn't care. Which wasn't the case, I just hadn't realized "THAT" day was supposed to be "the special day". So, are you sure your bf knew the day was special to you? DId you talk to him about it before hand? Even in a relationship people are still going to see things different from the way our partner see's them. It's great to be excited about an anniversary, but make sure your partner is on the same page in advance.
Unidentified Posted May 20, 2007 Posted May 20, 2007 Hey, I'm a guy and i think that some men do, some men don't. I know the exact date of when i got together with my girlfriend and still to this day make something of it every month like just going out somewhere, and its been over a year. Its just a reason to have a good time together and also to look at yourselves and think wow,.. i'm so happy to be with this person, though it should be done every day it isnt always. So long as you're really happy with him and he is with you then everything should be alright,.. it is just another day, but still something should have happened like just going out or something to show a sign of respect to the other and to show you still feel as strong as you ever have.. either way its not for all guys, some arent like that at all and just enjoy being with you every day,.. some are just nasty and couldt care less, i hope you have the former.
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