soulseeker Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 Hello all. Thanks for your help So, I met this guy about three weeks ago. Things have been going extremely well. He doesnt play games, is up front about wanting to see me, etc. He has been taking 80% of the initiative. It just feels good, not too much, not too little. BUT, he leaves for the summer in a week. Yesterday, he left a really sweet message on my phone. This morning I called him back and asked him to go for a walk today or tomorrow. He asked me what I was doing and said there was a BBQ tonight and did I want to go. I said I dont get out of class until 9 pm. He said call me when you get out and we can meet up. Well, I got out early, which he anticipated, and called him. He did not answer. Now, I suppose there are a few legitimate reasons to not answer, i.e: it is in the country in MT, so maybe no reception?, maybe he didnt hear it (that has happened to me before, but I would think he would be looking for my call), maybe he left it home on accident? Are these legitimate? Is it even possible that I am worrying for nothing? When he didnt answer, I left a light/fun message about being excited that I was done for the semester and for him to have fun at the BBQ and that I would see him Thursday (we have plans). When I see him, should I even bring this up? I got so burned in my last relationship that I feel I no longer have any sense of normal behavior. Most anything that doesnt go 100% how I would do it, is suspect to me. I really dont want to be this way. I am tired of coming to LS, no offense, you know what I mean . I want to be the person that just thinks " la-la-la, this is no big deal." Any sincere advice is greatly appreciated
sweetbutcheeky Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 I got so burned in my last relationship that I feel I no longer have any sense of normal behavior. Most anything that doesnt go 100% how I would do it, is suspect to me. I really dont want to be this way. I am tired of coming to LS, no offense, you know what I mean . I want to be the person that just thinks " la-la-la, this is no big deal." Any sincere advice is greatly appreciated I can totally relate with you there, he misses a call and you fear the worst. Wondering why you can't be thinking it's nothing (you don't go over it in your mind lol) and he will call later. Need a little extra reassurance because the past had left you looking at thinks in worst case. Then things end up being fine and you feel silly. I'm sure something came up like you said, didnt get the call or battery was dead. Like the other night when my guy called me and I had to run to the store and I told him I would call him when I got back. He was waiting for the call and wondered why I never did - I did but he didn't hear it ring cause he was sitting on the phone! LOL
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