missmylilblndgirl Posted May 8, 2007 Posted May 8, 2007 well after a really nasty breakup after three years my ex had started seein this new guy who she seemed to really like. well they went out for a month but he had dumped her through a text and now she has started to contact me again. she always reminds me everyday that we will never get back together and that when she was with him she was happy and didnt think of me. She asked me for a favor and needs a date for prom since he left her. shes a senior this year and is 18 and im a freshman in college and 20. i told her that i would go because i didnt want her to miss it because i knew how much it meant to her. she said we can only be friends and that she does want to be friends with me which is something she told me two weeks ago we would never be. she said she doesnt hate me at all and really cares for me as a person but not the way she used to. but she always brings up our past relationship, her relationship she had with her last bf and what they did, how she will never get back with me i feel it is so hopeless and i was starting to move on and then she just has to jump back in my life. i dont know why she always has to remind me that were never gettin back together its like shes almost trying to convince herself idk. totally confused and she always asks if i had sex with other girls while weve been broken up. then says i want you to find a new gf. i really dont get her. were meeting up tomorrow for lunch fri were goin to the movies and then sat is her prom. im gonna be the guy she fell in love with and show her the best time i can. just be the guy that hopefull she has missed over the last couple months but hasnt realized it cause she hasnt seen me. If after prom she still wants to just be friends i will just move on and forget about it and work on me and if its meant to be its meant to be. just need some advice if my situation is hopeless and maybe what is going through her head because to me it seems she doesnt know what she wants.
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