unsafe Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We've known each other for a year and a half. This past year has been hard. His brothers fiance told me things I didn't need to know. That she had slept with my man a year before and that they had an emotional relationship that I was breaking up by being with him because he was putting all his time into me. She kicked me out because I stopped liking her for being a rude blunt bitch and telling me things that I didnt' need to know and for always causing drama for us. My man felt torn between his brother and I because I no longer want to be around her. She is rude and in my opinions still has feelings for him. He moved out from living with them and picked me. He said she was CRAZY and he didnt' care to be friends with her anymore. But the thing is he has no other friends then his brother and his brothers soon to be wife. So now my guy is always hanging out with me and my friends. My only request was the he not hang out with her alone. She makes me uncomfortable and I would respect him and I wouldn't hang out alone with someone I had slept with. Things are good for us. We were doing our own thing having fun. It was our 1 year anniversary Saturday. Friday night he got really drunk and went off on me about how I make him feel guilty about not being able to hang out with his brother because of the situtation. I told him I didn't care about him hanging out with his brother but he should work on a relationship with his brother with out the cheating hore of a wife he is about to marry. But he was drunk and broke up with me and said it was over. The next day our 1 year he was sorry and doesn't want to lose me. And knows he made the mess with his brother and his soon to be wife and is ok with the situation and just wishes he had friends and knows he needs to work on being friends with him. I took him back, but every one in my life says I'm making a big mistake. That he obviously needs these people in his life and might not ever get over it. As much as he wants me, he wants them too. But he had sex with his brothers wife am I asking to much after all she's told me that he distance himself from her? That I'm not comfortable around her. That I don't think its good for him or his brothers relationships to keep acting like nothing is wrong and nothing ever happened. He and His brother have never even talked about what happened. I want this to work, but I don't want to be held responsible for his mistakes and messes he's made that aren't going away! And thoughts to help me get through the day?
kepners Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 yeah baby-girl, you keep to your opinion. shes nasty and there is no way on god green earth i would let my misses hagout with her sister boyfriend who she banged and who he still has feelings for. and in honestly, this bloke and i would be locking horns on a gobal scale so he knows his position with my woman. Now, in all honesty u cant tell people to be friend and not to be friends with, so u just let them all get on with it. in all honesty the family isnt close and they have no respect or boundries between right and wrong. its all a bit trailer trash to me. they will all fall apart, and honestly you dont have to be friends with eveybody. You stick with what you got, try not to get involved involved... stick by your man 100% and if you every get these chances... 1 - bang her out 2 - bang your bf brother 3 - explode HAHA no seriously just remian dignifed. and try not let the white trash bring you down! and they probably all need each other and they all need this drama and the brothers are probably very simple boys and you girls are the strong ones. and his brother misses is jealous that she dont have both of them after her... as odd as it sounds... and in a public arguement you hold nothing back and throw dignity out of the window for those 20mins of winning a glorious arguement. hehehe
sweetbutcheeky Posted May 8, 2007 Posted May 8, 2007 Hmm what I find strange is that your bf's brother isn't mad that his own brother had sex with his wife! That the emotional affair was still going along until he met you. And that his brother is still marrying her! I think it's fair for him to hang with his brother alone or with the two of them but not her alone. He should have no need to be alone with her anyway. I think that's fair. I also think if your BF found some friends to hang with besides you or his brother that would help a lot.
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