smookie Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 So taking all the advise on here with the Nc really has worked for me!!! THANK YOU ALL!!! However now he calls me on Saturday night (leaving a message) cuz I will not pick up my phone saying "hey skinny ______ I was hoping I could come over for dinner tonight, I am sitting here board so give me a call back" WTF is this stuff, when I was calling him still he was very crule, he was trying to pay me back for the wrong that I did in the 4.5 years.And wanted nothing to do with me. My question is WHY IS HE CALLING!!!! I have no intensions on talking to him after seeing how well and good I feel without talking to him, I feel great do not feel put down and ran down anymore. But still why?
New Hope Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 Plain and simple, because he was thinking of you! since he hasnt heard from you in a week throw him off guaRD..keep doing what u doing..im glad u listen..watch when a month passes of NC, thats when he is gonna start breaking his head....even worse....
CaliGuy Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 Because you are showing self-respect to him, he is now curious. Stick to NC. Remember how poorly he treated you as motivation to not give him the time of day. To earn respect from others you must first respect yourself.
smookie Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 I do not intend on contacting him at all. He treated me like I was always nothing to him and I was always his last choice, If no one else would he would ask me, Just like Saturday night again he waited until everyone else was busy then he calls me.... NOPE NOT ANYMORE!!! I do have a large support system through this breakup and I am really doing good for myself. I can say that I am now happy that it all ended cuz it showed me what I wanted in life. But this gets me so mad that he think I will even put up with this still!! And even more I am scared that he will show up at my house, I am not scared of him doing anything just I do not want to see him at all!!!! I am moving on (no other relationships) but doing things for myself.
New Hope Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 he shows up to ur house...dont open the door...because theres nothing to talk about anymore...................
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