Merlin617 Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 OK, well I didn't know who to ask these questions too so here goes. I have been married going on 9years in august and have 2 boys. We have for the most part during the marriage split about everything, except for the last 2 years. She cheated on me twice about a year or so apart, and it was probably around 3 years ago. Well we got over it and moved on as best we could. My complaint now it that I do most of the work and she lays around the house doing pretty much the bare minimum. I do most if not all the house work and take care of the kids for the most part as well. Now don't get me wrong she does some house work but only when I have had enough and make a statment about it. I would have to say the Sex is the reason I'm here. Since we had our youngest son, who will be 3 here shortly, there isn't much if any sex being had in the house and while it's not a BIG deal it is some what of a Big deal to me. I would probably say that we will go between 6-8 weeks if not longer sometimes between any kind of sexual activity. Now I get the usualy peck in the morning and afternoon, but that's about it. We do NOT fight about it, it's just kindof the unwritten rule that when she want's it she gets it, but it doesn't work the other way. Now I love my wife, but this is Becoming a BIG problem for me to deal with. I realize that you really don't have to have it, but when she so freely gave to 2 different people and now I don't get it except everyone in awhile is what's bothering me. I need someone to tell me I'm just crazy and making something out of it that it's not. She doen't work much overtime nor do I but she is the Major bread bringer. I realize that people are tired from time to time and it just doesn't happen as often as it use too, but I find women and men talking about how often they have sex or just kinda flirt around with each other. I do love her but this has been on my mind for awhile and I really am tired of tryin to rationalize it in my mind. Any kinda help or conversation will help, Thanks for listening.
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