alexa137 Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 ok i'm back--my original posts were on this forum back in feb/march about boyfriends wants time apart--well he did finally move out of the house on a monday, i was really upset to come home and not see any of his stuff--we texted, talked a little bit next 2-3 nights, he wanted to come over one night to get something but i told him no, i will leave on porch--thurs came and was time for me to start packing to move(he didnt know when and where) so the crazy chic i am i decided to have my car painted, change tags so he wouldnt notice me etc...well that fri i started moving he texted me wanting sex that night-i told him no he got mad thought i got some from someone else, i was just busy and had to move all by myself that day--well i will try to make this as short as possible but a lot has happened--i told him i thought i was pregnant(very late) and that same night he helped me moved the rest of the stuff and started being nice again and dont you know the next day he moved into my new apartment-everything going great, like him spending alot of time with me, chilling in the house, cooking, dishes etc...he said he was really gonna try with my daughter and me and for all of us to get along-all good--til about 2 weeks we started arguing about little stuff--well so i am still working 2 jobs and is very stressful because i have no time for much of anything else--and i know this is wrong of me but everytime someone says something to me while i am working my at home keying job i snap back and get angry --i hat that job and so does my daughter bcause i never have time to do things with her--so anyways--with me yelling at him he got really mad and told me last weekend he wants to move out again--also i am really stressed bcause i have no money and he hasnt given me too much to help out with rent or food--and when i bring it up he gets mad and says well i paid $775 for rent for 5 months over there---well so the past week he only comes home to take shower and go to sleep at 11-12 at night--exactly the same things he did to me a few months ago--i told him i am not going through that again--you are not stringing me along,lving here, getting sex etc... he gets mad--all week i havent seen him much--i told him if he moves out i dont think it will work between us and i wanted to break up with him(i guess i overreacted) he said he just wants to move to his own place(which he cant afford) and visit etc...by last thurs i was mad--so i put his work clothes and some other things in the hallway and told him not to come into my bedroom to sleep on couch--he got mad really mad still mad says i shouldnt touch his stuff--but i am just getting him to realize to make that choice again--he tells me everyday to chill out--oh so monday i only worked 1/2 day at first job and took off other job--and now have spaced my working schedule so that i take breaks and walk to the park every night with my daughter and now i have my evenings free--and look what happens now! hes not around to spend time with me! finally last night i told he has to stop avoiding me and talk--of course we had sex talked then argued i asked to many questions and he was ready to leave but ended up on the couch! i cant win! basically i see it that he loves me i love him, he plays games, i play games, if hes mean i am mean to him etc....i told him that it has to go one way or the other--either we work on the relationship, but i dont want one that i only see you at bedtime and for sex(oh he says again hes not using me for that) but ive been trying to kiss him and hug him for days and cant get no other affection from him--or we break up and dont text me, call me or check up on me--its over i didnt get no answer or comment on that---he says one thing and does another and i am going crazy again--crying stressing and losing weight--going back to therapy today any comments>> thanks
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