skper138 Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 my ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he was involved with another women as you may have read. I had such a hard time accepting this but there was nothing to do then to accept his reason for the breakup. i have been on NC for about 3 months but not to long ago i read that he calls me a B*** and a Cunt. we've had our fights but it was mostly because of his childish behavior. him coming home at 6:00am on the weekends and not helping much around the house. I still love him very much but why does he hate me so much if he is the one that hurt me and caused our relationship to go down the drain? his new girfrind checks my page on myspace and he does as well. why so much hate towards a girl that he knows loves him and always respected him?
annabelle75 Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 Hating you and making you out to be the villan to himself and the people in his life is the only way he can justify what he did to you. Its nothing you said or did, its just his own selfish way of coping with the end of the relationship. Its cruel and its wrong, but there is nothing you can do to stop it. At this point if you say anything in his head it just justifies his behavior. Deep down he knows he's being an a**hole but its the only way he can think of to explain his betrayal of your relationship.
Author skper138 Posted May 8, 2007 Author Posted May 8, 2007 I think you are right about this. he has no other way to deal with such behavior in regards to our break up. I thought he would never hurt me the way he did. he even had the guts to say he wished i was never alive. Who says things like this? I don't mine the break up because i know that it could be for the best for both of us but the lie and the way he cated was so hurtful and unexpected. I still love him after so much he has done. I hope that one day he can realize what he has done. I don't need him to come back to me but i would want him to feel a bit bad for what he has done.
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