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How can I control my jealously?


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There is this girl that I'm really good friends with, but I have fallen head over heels for her. I think she knows I have feelings for her but we never talk about it. Everytime we go out to a bar together, guys will always hit on her and she would always talk to them in front of me since she only thinks of me as "a friend." I would then get really drunk and jealous and act up. I end up having to leave cause sometimes I get out of control, but she would stay with her other friends and flirt with the other guys. I do want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid of how she would react. What could/should I do about my feelings and my jealousy rage??

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vegetarianqt

You really have no right to be upset unless you've made it clear how you feel towards her. You only think she knows you like her, but even if she thinks it, she can go on pretending it's not true until you validate it. Look, you'll never know until you put yourself out there. Don't let it be missed opportunity. People don't usually regret things they do, they regret things that they failed to do. It's a win-win situation. She can either say she's not interested and it will give you the freedom to move on, or she can say she is interested and something can start. But right now, where you are, is the worst place to be. In the dark.

 

I'm trying to cheer you on here: girls love a man who has the guts to put his heart out on the line. But if she isn't interested, the sooner you know, the sooner you can get over her.

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