sunshine087 Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 Im going to try to make this as short as poss. ok my boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and half and where like really having alot of problems:( and yesterday and today we really talked about everything thats going on well at the end of everything i said i think it would be best if we just end things now but after i went home and thought about things i dont think that was the best thing, i love him and i dont want to be without him, i was always told im u want something so bad u fight for it. i feel like i need to fight no i want to fight for our relationship. thats my question should i fight for us or just let go? we both still love each other very much i just need some help.. Need some help ASAP b/c were going to talk in about another hour.
norajane Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 This might be a little late, and probably not too helpful. We can't tell you what to do. YOu have to consider what your problems are and whether they can really be worked out or accepted. For example, if he's cheating on you, then no, you can't get back together. If he's physically or emotionally abusive, then no, you can't get back together. But if he's not calling enough or something, that might be something you can work on together. Hold on to your self-respect and self-esteem. Don't let your love for him blind you to behavior that is hurtful or disrespectful on his part. Don't settle for less than what you deserve just because you have feelings for him. There are lots of guys out there, and some of them might treat you better than he does.
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