KunFuZed Posted May 6, 2007 Posted May 6, 2007 I just move to a new state and upon arrival I met a guy. Awsome guy, some one I can see my self with for years only problem is he has a girlfriend that he's been with for 5 years. But we are so into each other spend a lot of time and nights together, do fun things like site seeing, eating, movies, etc. It felt like he was spending more time with me than his girlfriend. We use to have sex like rabbits but now its occasional, but its always unprotected. Recently I've been having these re-accuring dreams, some times its a little different, where I'm about 5 to 8 months pregnant and ofcourse he has to tell his girlfriend. In some dreams he brings his girlfriend to my house to fight me other times its like he accepts the fact that we messed up (he made his bed he has to lay in it) and she is just so angry and wants to fight me. I never met this girl so I don't know if she's that type of female. I don't know what this dream is trying to tell me. There is a part of me that wants to tell him about it, mainly to find out if I did get pregnant if he would bring his girlfriend to my house or if he thinks she would be so mad that she would want to fight me somthing terrible. But I keep quiet about it because if I do turn up pregnant one day I don't want him to think that was a hint that I wanted to have his baby. The feed back I'm looking for is an opinion on what the dream means and if I should tell him about it.
IpAncA Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 How the heck should we know if your dream comes true? If you having sex then anything is possible. Shesh...use some common sense.
Seen_It_All Posted May 8, 2007 Posted May 8, 2007 In some dreams he brings his girlfriend to my house to fight me other times its like he accepts the fact that we messed up (he made his bed he has to lay in it) and she is just so angry and wants to fight me.How old are you? 12? Have you had a dream yet where you get tested for STDs and find out you have an incurable one? Have you had a dream yet where you're stupid enough to get knocked up by a cheating piece of sh*it - and not only does he RUN far away from you when you TELL him you're pregnant, but you get to spend the next 18-21 years chasing him down for child support? Since you don't sound a day over 16, I would assume WE, the taxpayers, will get to foot the bill for this through all the social programs you'll be dipping into for your "love child." Either you're a troll, or an extremely ignorant person (or both). Go ahead and tell him of your dream - he's STUPID enough to not be using condoms so he deserves what he gets. Personally, in my dream, his girlfriend knocks the sh*t out of BOTH of you morons.
jbmarine Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 How the heck should we know if your dream comes true? If you having sex then anything is possible. Shesh...use some condom sense. Fixed? (I don't want to make light of the situation, but I concur with the age that's been tossed around.)
Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 I just move to a new state and upon arrival I met a guy. Awsome guy, some one I can see my self with for years only problem is he has a girlfriend that he's been with for 5 years. But we are so into each other spend a lot of time and nights together, do fun things like site seeing, eating, movies, etc. It felt like he was spending more time with me than his girlfriend. We use to have sex like rabbits but now its occasional, but its always unprotected. Recently I've been having these re-accuring dreams, some times its a little different, where I'm about 5 to 8 months pregnant and ofcourse he has to tell his girlfriend. In some dreams he brings his girlfriend to my house to fight me other times its like he accepts the fact that we messed up (he made his bed he has to lay in it) and she is just so angry and wants to fight me. I never met this girl so I don't know if she's that type of female. I don't know what this dream is trying to tell me. There is a part of me that wants to tell him about it, mainly to find out if I did get pregnant if he would bring his girlfriend to my house or if he thinks she would be so mad that she would want to fight me somthing terrible. But I keep quiet about it because if I do turn up pregnant one day I don't want him to think that was a hint that I wanted to have his baby. The feed back I'm looking for is an opinion on what the dream means and if I should tell him about it. If I'm not mistaken this is your 3rd thread about the same thing... Why do you need to start a new thread over and over about the same subject? I don't get this.
JustBecause Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 There's a book of dream interpretations titled "10,000 Dreams Interpreted". Check it out.
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 How old are you? 12? Have you had a dream yet where you get tested for STDs and find out you have an incurable one? Have you had a dream yet where you're stupid enough to get knocked up by a cheating piece of sh*it - and not only does he RUN far away from you when you TELL him you're pregnant, but you get to spend the next 18-21 years chasing him down for child support? Since you don't sound a day over 16, I would assume WE, the taxpayers, will get to foot the bill for this through all the social programs you'll be dipping into for your "love child." Either you're a troll, or an extremely ignorant person (or both). Go ahead and tell him of your dream - he's STUPID enough to not be using condoms so he deserves what he gets. Personally, in my dream, his girlfriend knocks the sh*t out of BOTH of you morons. How about a dream where you get a brain from the wizard and fly back to your farm in Kansas?
IpAncA Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 Fixed? Helps but doesn't mean it always work. There's a book of dream interpretations titled "10,000 Dreams Interpreted". Check it out. Yeah...I use to have baby/pregnancy dreams and looked that up in the same book and found squat.
JustBecause Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 Helps but doesn't mean it always work. Yeah...I use to have baby/pregnancy dreams and looked that up in the same book and found squat. In that exact book, to dream of being pregnant denotes that your children will be unattractive.
IpAncA Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 In that exact book, to dream of being pregnant denotes that your children will be unattractive. And you believe that? I believe what I found was something about someone dying or had or was. Something like that. I've never found anything positive about it. Maybe I looked in the wrong part.
JustBecause Posted May 9, 2007 Posted May 9, 2007 No I don't believe the dream interpretation. That book is only for entertainment. If you dream your teeth fall out, that supposed to mean death too. I've had both dreams. I am not dead & my son & daughter are beautiful.
will2power Posted May 10, 2007 Posted May 10, 2007 hmmm... I used to dream that my MM would come back to me after we broke up and each time I would tell him to f-off. In reality, he came back, separated again from wife and we have a lot to deal with. Either way, it life would have been difficult. do you just do it like bunnies or do you actually take time to talk about what is expected of each other. I mean, I'm not really one to preach, but how is the R real if you just have unprotected sex without talking over the consequences.
Author KunFuZed Posted May 11, 2007 Author Posted May 11, 2007 Well we have talked about kids, but we never went into too much detail about the subject. I.E. What would we do, wat about ur girlfriend, what would happen. I have no doubt that he would be there for me and our child I'm just worried about his girlfriends reaction to the news. I'm a grown woman, I know I can use condoms but I choose not to because I trust him.
whichwayisup Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 I'm a grown woman, I know I can use condoms but I choose not to because I trust him. One day you're going to regret this decision not to use condoms. It will come back and bite you hard..So, be prepared. Remember too, what he is doing to his girlfriend, he could DO TO YOU in the future...Karma......Keep that in the back of your mind.
4whatItsWorth Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 I'm a grown woman, I know I can use condoms but I choose not to because I trust him. Ow! I'm not his g/f (neither are you, you're his "fun-on-the-side" ) but such coldness and foolishness hurts! YOU trust him? WOW. I'd NEVER trust a man who is fine sleeping without or with protection with someone who ain't his g/f... That's like trusting the pedophile won't touch a naked child lying next to him.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 I think Konfuzed just wants to 'accidently' end up pregnant. You can trust a guy all you want, but I think you know quite well that trust isn't an adequate birth control. In fact, I would bet you are counting on it.
whichwayisup Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 What if he has another OW on the side that you don't know about and he's having unprotected sex with her as well...Just keep that in mind.
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