misterc Posted May 6, 2007 Posted May 6, 2007 Hi! my first post, so here goes.... I have a very close female friend - we go out, we have dinner, we stay up late and chat. Should I just ask her out, and have done, even if that risks our friendship? Her friendship means a lot to me, so could we still be friends if she says "no"? How to balance this against my not wanting to wonder...? So many questions - any answers/opinions out there? cheers...
str_Ay Posted May 6, 2007 Posted May 6, 2007 I think everyone goes through this time and time again Depending on how long you've known each other It may seem weird at first But always make a confirmation Because in the reality of it all there are two possibilities: 1 - She may be thinking if she should or shouldn't say something about pursuing your friendship to the next level 2 - She just likes the comfort of your company and wouldn't wanna change anything But never rush in A true friend would hear you out And understand where you're coming from In the end If all goes well Whether she says yes or no It should all conclude with a reassuring smile and hug ^_^
Author misterc Posted May 6, 2007 Author Posted May 6, 2007 I think you're right - a true friend (which she surely is) will hear me out, and all will be cool with a hug - what isn't?
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