Guest Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 There's a guy that I've known for about 2 and half years, we go to the same college, have several lessons together and he's in my form group. Me, a friends and some younger students decided to do a cake sale to raise funds for a school based charity called Miracle House. Long story short, I stayed up until 2 am baking cakes and had to get up at 6.30, not one of my best ideas. So I was talking to him about cakes etc, when the girls decided to go set-up I stayed behind. He'd gone and sat by the computer so I sat down next to him and I made a real cake of myself. Apparently I gesticulate a lot when I'm talking to someone I like, but I suppose lack o f sleep and also proximity to this guy, my friend told me I looked quite intense and I must admit I'd wandered off topic just a little .... Also of late I seem to be pursued by another guy who is well-liked, but I because I don't want to mislead him I make no pretense about it, but perhaps I should be more easygoing as long as he knows its nothing more, because I thought it might get the guy I like into gear but also make me seem more approachable. I really like this guy but I'm terrified of reading into things too much and making an even bigger cake of myself. We get on pretty well together, make each other laugh and there are some weird moments, (e.g. when he'd smacked his head in rugby and wanted to show me the bump, he caught my hand and told me to erect my finger and ran my fingers through his hair I was just like .woah.) but then I have a horrible feeling that perhaps I'm wrong and am reading too much into it or that I'm just seeing what I want to see. Please could someone tell me what they think I should do (or their opinion about what I've written or anthing uwant to know) on: A) whether I should be more easy going with the other guy B) How to tell if i'm reading too much into it C) How to find start up another conversation with him without chasing after him Thanks in advance JazzyKid Link to post Share on other sites
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