Guest Posted May 6, 2007 Posted May 6, 2007 So needless to say I have found the man of my dreams, he is wonderful, he shows nothing for respect for me, respectful to my parents, caring, hard working, nice, passionate he is the whole package and I would be lost without him... buuuuuuttttt.... there is one issue he is portugese and also a muslim (no issue with my family.. however his family.. :S) I have yet to meet his family becuase they are pushing the whole arranged marriage thing, which I respect that.. but his family was not an arranged ceremony they just met like him and I did and fell in love, anyways they are not pushing it with any of the other children except for my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have discussed this many times, he just wants to sit down with his family one more time and explain everything, and he says not too worry that technically marriage is up to him and he doesnt care what they say but at some point he does have to respect them also, but he says it doesnt matter what his parents think becuse he cares for me so much. Which is great and I believe him, but how am i suppose to feel knowing that his parents are going to hate me, and they might be respectful to my face and thats about it which will be nice that they are respectful to my face but I'm going to always know the truth... its hard enough being in an interracial relationship but geezzzee... now this to.. I do love him, and he means the world and none of this matters becuase I know that we can make it through.. but sometimes I wonder how am I going to cope with this all... does anyone have any suggestions!
CXKinbote Posted May 11, 2007 Posted May 11, 2007 Maybe this will help your situation-- The Portuguese are white too. Problem solved!
miss snoopy Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 Maybe this will help your situation-- The Portuguese are white too. Problem solved! Haha was just about to post this! Unless you come from a very tiny Icelandic village where just about everyone outside is considered an ethnic minority...
alphamale Posted May 12, 2007 Posted May 12, 2007 i don't know...some of these moslems are involved in terrorist activitties. you should run a comprehensive background check on him and his family
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