SweetOlive Posted May 4, 2007 Posted May 4, 2007 Is it wrong to tell an ex to give you some space (time) for yourself so they can finally leave you alone atleast for a while? My ex has broken up with me countless times and won't leave me alone. I need to start my healing process... but is it wrong for me to say this? Btw I bet he has someone else lined up already. He likes to get what he can't have. He's txt me over 300 times in the past 5 days...
Lizzie60 Posted May 4, 2007 Posted May 4, 2007 Is it wrong to tell an ex to give you some space (time) for yourself so they can finally leave you alone atleast for a while? My ex has broken up with me countless times and won't leave me alone. I need to start my healing process... but is it wrong for me to say this? Btw I bet he has someone else lined up already. He likes to get what he can't have. He's txt me over 300 times in the past 5 days... Not at all... your ex is a freak!!! you should tell him once and for all to leave you alone or you'll have to get a restraining order... this guy is a control freak... It is not wrong at all... in fact I sincerely think that YOU HAVE to tell him to buzz off not just for a while for FOREVER! He's completely nuts!
nittygritty Posted May 4, 2007 Posted May 4, 2007 Don't contact him just to tell him not to contact you again. Only if he should happen to contact you again, then tell him not to contact you anymore .
Chrome Barracuda Posted May 4, 2007 Posted May 4, 2007 Is it wrong to tell an ex to give you some space (time) for yourself so they can finally leave you alone atleast for a while? My ex has broken up with me countless times and won't leave me alone. I need to start my healing process... but is it wrong for me to say this? Btw I bet he has someone else lined up already. He likes to get what he can't have. He's txt me over 300 times in the past 5 days... 300 txt messages?? damn that sounds obsessive. No it isnt wrong to ask for more space, if you need to heal. But it also depends on who broke up. If he did, then I suggest you need space. it's up to you.
2ndIINone Posted May 4, 2007 Posted May 4, 2007 Did I read that right? he breaks up with you and then pursues you? With 300 text messages? geeeez..... you don't need space... you need to move outta state. Don't walk, but rather, put your sneakers on and run far from him. Dude has some issues. Don't answer his texts.... calls, emails, etc.... otherwise, you're just enviting him in to hurt you s'more.
CaliGuy Posted May 5, 2007 Posted May 5, 2007 No, it's not wrong at all. It's FAIR to you. Change your phone number too while you are at it (without a fowarding number) so that he can't bug you anymore. You want space, sounds like you need to create it on your own as he isn't going to comply.
Author SweetOlive Posted May 5, 2007 Author Posted May 5, 2007 thx for the replies... Well I cant change my number, Ive changed it twice because of him. And he still found a way to get it. In one month I have received 1532 txt msgs from him. He's broken up with me more than 10 times in the past 3 years. Ive told him to just leave me alone for good and thats where he becomes obsessive. I feel like Im giving him some hope telling him to give me time. I know thats the only way he wont be on me and making me feel like crap... I run away and he runs faster and caches me. If everyone knew my story everyone would see that this is not even a big part of how crazy he is...
Sheba Posted May 5, 2007 Posted May 5, 2007 Olive, my sweet, he is nuts! 300 is too much! I think you need to change your number, yet again. First, tell him that you will report his harrassment to the local police and not to contact you again. Then, change your number and REPORT HIM if he won't leave you alone! You deserve your peace! 300 is seriously crazy. Even I am not that crazy.
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