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I want a boyfriend but I don't want to hurt my ex


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Here's the story. I'm fifteen years old. Back in seventh grade I went to the movies with my friend, her boyfriend, her best friend, and her boyfriend's best friend. I imediately liked her boyfriend's best friend. (we'll call him uno) So uno and I went out for a while and broke up with me because he found out I was bisexual and he didn't approve of that. I later found out that uno just thought he was too immature for me and I laughed at that thought. So a year and a half ago I was hanging out with one of my friends and he introduced me to one of his friends. (we'll call him dos) So dos and I went out for a long time. well, long for me anyways. But after I broke up with him he got depressed, couldn't sleep, and lost his will to live. Thank god he's not the type of guy who would kill himself! What the worst thing is, is that he has this deadly diseased that is connected to his emotions... Well I made his life expectancy drop... He's not supposed to live to graduation. Before him I had boyfriends left and right and often... It's been over a year and I haven't had a boyfriend since. But I've been hanging out with uno a lot lately and I really like him! and he told me he still likes me too! What do I do? I don't want to kill dos or hurt him but I really love being with uno and I really want to be more than just friends with him again. What should I do?

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Don't believe for a minute that you have the power to kill dos by not seeing him. If you like uno, go for it.

 

I truly believe sooner or later there will be a tres and a quatro. Go for it with all your passion and don't look back. If your ex is a wussie, he needs to learn to toughen up and you must learn to go for what you want.

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yeah... I know I probably shouldn't worry about dos but he's like a brother to me... I love him and don't want to hurt him in the least bit.

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