allsport_12 Posted May 3, 2007 Posted May 3, 2007 Heres the issue. When I first approach a girl I feel extremely nervious and usually say something to "scare" them off. If I make it past this first intial thing successful, and relax around them I have the confidence in myself that everything will be good from there and we'll get to know eachother and it'll be all downhill from there. So my problem is, how do I keep myself calm, cool, relaxed the first time I meet a girl in order to keep them insterested until I relax more and make a better first impression?
mammax3 Posted May 4, 2007 Posted May 4, 2007 Imagine you've already talked to her once or twice. Or that she's an old friend. Make sure that you know what to say to her, and plan on more things to say after the success of your opening line. Good luck!
JCD Posted May 4, 2007 Posted May 4, 2007 The easiest topic for me to talk to about with girls is music. Also, first impressions are overrated. I would suggest to you that you don't worry about making good first impressions. It puts too much stress on you and you'll appear nervous. What I do, is talk to a girl few times then let her talk. If she continues the conversation then she's interested in me otherwise she's thinking how to flee Don't force yourself on her, let her lead a bit too.
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