mattie2007 Posted May 3, 2007 Posted May 3, 2007 as y'all know, my boyfriend of two years broke up with me a month and a half ago by e-mail. i have not talked to him since then. this week, he has been trying to call me, and i have been ignoring him. tonight, he called me from a number i didn't recognize, and i answered. i thought i was doing well and healing, but as soon as i heard his voice, all of the emotions came back, and i was furious at him. he told me that the fact that i make him talk about things and am negative about him is why he can't be with me. i have two questions: first, why am i still so angry? i feel like he might have wanted to get back together with me if i hadn't gotten so mad tonight. second, what does he want?? he still doesn't want to be with me. he doesn't love me. why, when i have just started to be happy and get my life back together, would he call me? this is the biggest question because i really can't undertand why he w2ould try to get back in touch now. thanks for you answers. i haven't cried about this in weeks: i've been sleeping, eating, and working better, and i have been seeing my friends. tonight, though, after hearing from him, i am a mess.
Author mattie2007 Posted May 4, 2007 Author Posted May 4, 2007 anyone? i could really use some help with this one.
Bree Posted May 4, 2007 Posted May 4, 2007 Just let him go. By him calling you he's just curious to see if he still has you. And by you still be angry with him lets him know that he does. If he calls from a strange # again and you answer just treat him pleasantly and quickly hang up. There is no need for either of you to strike up a convo.
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