mismyblndhrgrl Posted May 3, 2007 Posted May 3, 2007 this is a long story but really could use some advice. Well im 20 and shes 18 to let you know how old we are and we had been together for 3 years.But last summer when i was a senior in high school she wouldnt let me do anything camping trips, graduation parties, beach week nothin and i couldnt put up with it. I wasnt happy for months with her pinning me down until i finally couldnt deal with it and broke it off. Well at first i was so relieved to not be with her. She kept callin me over and over again cryin and the more she did it the more it pushed me away. She even came over my house and dropped off all my things i had given her thank god i wasnt home. I told her that i was done with it, it was over and i didnt care anymore. I had actually found somebody new only about a week after we broke and at first i thought i really liked her. Well as time went by without the ex callin me and leavin me alone the negative feelings i had for her soon turned to all the good times we had and this new girl that i thought i really liked a lot well i didnt. I started to compare the ex with the new girl all the time and realized wow what am i doin i love my ex and we finally got back together after about a two month seperation. so that is half the story. well we got back together last august and everything was goin great until i would say feb. this year. She told me i feel like im missin out. then i knew somthin was wrong. well march 9th there was a campin trip with the guyz and she said if i go it would be over so i went not thinkin she was serious well i get home from the trip two days later and for a week she iqnored my calls so i went over her house to see what was goin on. She told me i told you it was over if you went, i havent been happy lately, we'll never get back together, you'll always have a place in my heart, but i have no feelings for you, cant stand you, and could care less anymore. She had said she had been seein some other guy only about a couple days after we broke up. some people say maybe she had him in line well no she didnt cause i was there when they somewhat meant. well in feb. we went to the movies on tuesday night always went on tuesday nights and she parked by the same type of car she was drivin. well we get out and there is a note on her car sayin nice car we should hang out sometime and left his number. then we go again next week and the same car, is in the same spot at the same time. well we pull up beside it and hes actually in the car just sittin there and she was like what kind of loser sits at the movies by himself and then he pulls off yeah thats how they kinda met and she told me after we broke up she just decided to text him. Theyve been goin out for a month and it seems like shes really overcommiting to him so fast. Well shes been doin alot of hurtful things, such as accusin me of using her moms credit card, stalkin her, she sent me pics of her and her new bf together on my phone, came by my work with him and gave me a smirk, tellin she hates me more than anything and cant stand me. Well she did tell me happy bday by sendin me a text last week which showed me maybe she still cares it just sux seein the person you love more than anything and have known for the last three years turn into somebody she is not. Ive been in nc for the last two weeks and have moved on but feelins for her still linger deep down. I do think we will be together again someday its just not the right time right now but who knows. I just hope maybe she will realize what we had was special but then she might not. I just want to know if there is any hope and if yall have any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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