Guest Posted May 3, 2007 Posted May 3, 2007 Hello everyone, I have a dilemma. I just reconnected with a male childhood friend through a friend website (I am female). The last time we saw each other was 15 years ago. So when we did reconnect, it was very surreal but good. At first, we would exchange very very friendly emails. He would even put at the end "Yours always and dear friend" or "I remember those nights with you". He would at least send me a message once every few days. One night we decided to chat through the IM. All the feelings that were building up came out onto the table. He said he had such a crush on me and I did the same. He said that I should've told him then maybe we could've had a relationship together. He said he wanted to kiss me. He said that he had thought about me so much throught the years and wondered how I was and where I was. He said I had grown into a beautiful woman, and hoped that I wasn't disappointed with him that he wasn't what I had thought. He even said that after soooo many years that the feelings are still there and strong and he even wanted to come visit me where I was so that he could just touch me and he could imagine how intense it would be. Basically I told him a lot of the same things, except I said that things are going a little too quickly hence we just got reconnected. I said we shouldn't rush anything that we waited 15 years for this that another year or so won't hurt. The last thing he said to me in the IM was for me to never forget him and he'll never forget me. So, after that night I had emailed him a few times to see how he's doing....Nothing!! Not even a Hello.... not even Hi. He won't respond to my emails and he's never on anymore to chat. It's been 3 weeks and it seems like he's ignoring me!! I don't even see that he has visited my page. But i am still in his top 4... hasn't changed that at least. But I guess I am stumped!? What happened ??? And why is he establishing no contact with me?? I am a little heart broken over this. Can anyone help or at least make my mind a little clearer as to what went wrong here ?? He never indicated being mad at me. SO... what exactly went wrong and why NC?? I'm really sad over this!!
WigWam123 Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 Hi! This sounds alst identical to what's going on with me!! I can't believe it, but I didn't really get any feedback so I am gonna watch your post to see if you get any feedback, good luck!
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