Comment a little off

[noway]

My bf works at my work. In a week and a half, his contract is up. My workplace is extremely relaxed. The people are more like family here. He comes in later than I do, and he didnt even come in to say hello to me. I knew he was here, but decided to wait to see how long it would take for him to say hello. Finally, when it was apparent he wasnt going to, I went out there to say hello to him.

 

I asked him why he never bothered to let me know he was here. He said that he didnt want everyone to know he was late. He wasnt late. In fact, he doesnt really have a scheduled time to be in. He pretty much comes and goes as he pleases. He has been known to come in close to noon time. This was the first time he was really early.

 

I decided to ask him what was going on between us. (We go more than 2 weeks without sex, this is becoming chronic).

 

I asked him if the attraction was fading.

 

His response:

 

"No, come on, Didnt I sleep with you today"?

 

ummmm....what??? :confused: :confused:

 

Not sure what that is supposed to mean...

 

Technically, yes, we did sleep with each other today...as in we slept in the same bed...but thats about it...as it has been now for the last two weeks....

 

Really concerned with that comment.

 

Care to shed some light on this?

[Lizzie60]

Not sure what that is supposed to mean...

 

You should ask him that question. I have no clue. I don't know why people ask strangers questions they should ask their SO... weird.

[noway]

You should ask him that question. I have no clue. I don't know why people ask strangers questions they should ask their SO... weird

 

So the only reason you responded was so you could take a jab at me?...weird.

 

I asked because it seemed off....I ask him if the attraction wasnt there, and he responded with "didnt I sleep with you today"?

 

So apparently he equates attraction and love with sleeping in the same bed as one another every nite?

 

Does anyone think that is odd? Anyone?