Guest Posted May 3, 2007 Posted May 3, 2007 Have any of you dated a divorced guy/gal? My boyfriend of almost 6 months was dumped by an ex who left him for a guy 15 yrs younger than him (and her). He has two kids with this woman and claims that he's maitaining the relationship/friendship for the kids. She is very controlling, demanding and dramatic and he puts up with an awful lot of crap from her. When they talk on the phone, she gives him orders and -I swear- he sounds like a five year old boy. Whenever he's there and I call him on his cell, he never gets the phone. Today, I called and he got the phone for some reason, but was very formal, said that he was with the boys and then the line went dead. Now, this guy has always called me back if we got disconnected. Well, today, guess what. I tried calling him back a few times and his phone went straight to voicemail. He called me back later from his house saying that we got disconnected and he couldn't reach me because he was in his ex wife's basement. I was so upset with him that I told him that I didn't want to talk to him and hung up. He denies being hung up on his ex wife, but every part of me is screaming that he hasn't moved on. I am seriously considering dumping this guy. Please tell me. Am I overreacting? was his reaction today normal? (I sure as hell don't think so) Is this guy salvageable or should I get good sneakers and run.
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