Ruthieo01 Posted May 2, 2007 Posted May 2, 2007 Okay this is'nt about a guy cheating on me. But I have started dating this guy (Jack) He is very nice. We hit it off really really good. Well things start to get a little fast and all of a sudden I noticed that he was being complete stand offish towards me. But I hadn't done anything to make him feel smoothered! I was following his lead the whole time. So after about a week of ackwardness I finally got him to talked to me about what was going on. He told me that things were just getting a little out of hand and that he wanted to take things slow and no rush into anything. Please keep in mind that the both of us are entering new chapter and need to stay focused in our lives and we both don't want to rush into anything. I told him I complete agreed. I asked him if he was telling me all of this as a co-out to give me an excused and never call or talk to me again. He told me that he was still interested, and that he did still want to pursue things. After we got it all out in the open, all the tension was gone. He was holding my hand before he left everything seemed fine. I just don't want to over step my bounds. Should I just act like nothing happened or should I back off a bit and let him pursue me and let me know he is sill for the whole thing? I really like him and I don't to freak him out and make him feel smoothered. I would love some advice!
Princess Jasmine Posted May 2, 2007 Posted May 2, 2007 well, according to this story, I think that maby he was standoffish at first because he didnt know how to act or something. He didnt know what you thought, I guess thats why it took a week to get him to talk, and thats why he wants to take things slow. If he says he is interested, then accept that, and let him lead. But no, I dont think your smothering him. Just let him lead everthing! and you wont have to worry. Good Luck and *God Bless*
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