cherrytree1 Posted May 2, 2007 Posted May 2, 2007 I would appreciate any advice, opinions, and insights from fellow members regarding a decision I will have to make soon. Here is my situation. For the past two years, I have had a close correspondence on the Internet with a woman from another country. We have been close friends and there has been a little flirtation and talk of meeting in person but no definite plans. A few months ago, I found out she had been writing to another guy for 5 months and planning to get married. I got jealous and stopped writing but she sent me two letters begging me to come back. She said I am the best thing that ever happened to her and she wants to make a new start with me. A month later, I found out she is still writing to the other guy although she claims they are just friends and she wants to put that chapter behind her. She says it is my fault for not expressing feelings for her and making definite plans to meet her sooner. I accept her criticism but still feel betrayed and distrustful. My better judgement is shouting, "BAIL-OUT!" but there is a struggle between my head and my heart. What should I do?
Trialbyfire Posted May 2, 2007 Posted May 2, 2007 I recommend you listen to your better judgement before you emotionally invest further into someone who's keeping her options open.
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