Guest Posted May 2, 2007 Posted May 2, 2007 very confused and trying to find some peace. we had a ltr more than 12yrs., with the last 3 long distance due to him moving. we visited every few months. out of the blue came the break-up by e-mail, very brief and superficial. he stated he is not "there" anymore. one phone call following, he stated superficial reasons..weather difference, different hobbies, etc., nothing purposeful. then no response for weeks (5wks) from numerous requests for closure. after ltr, i needed more than the "see ya" attitude. 7wks. later, finally a very brief response, and he stated he is getting married, (dated a "few months"). he seemed to have some slight anger with me. do people really make such huge commitments that quickly??? what goes on in their heads? are they really ready to move on to something that drastic??? can they fully be there for the other after such a new break-up??? do people truly emotionally move on that quickly??? forget about ex???
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