MightAsWellBeDead Posted May 2, 2007 Posted May 2, 2007 Me and my girlfriend has been together 1 year and 6 months...its really hard to type right now, my eyes are sore from crying and my entire body feels sluggish, I really never thought I'd be this low...today has by far been the worst day of my life. We love each other alot, I admit that I've put my girl through more hell than I should have and I probably, yeah I do deserve what is happening to me right now...see I broke up with her (shes 16 im 17) because we were fighting it was almost a mutual thing...we never did get to see each other but even though I went out and partied with my friends (I never cheated on her) she never wanted me to but I still went. Now after we broke up I want her back really bad but tonight she tells me she has to think, but I cry and whine I think I aggravated her she said she still loves me and only wants to be with me and I believe her and so she was gonna give me an answer later on like tommorow or a week or something and I'm in so much pain that I cant wait that long. She said she'd always be there for me but she turned her phone up so I called her house and her guardian answered....this is where things get tricky... She had told me earlier in the relationship about the male guardian cheating on the female and me in my anger/sad mood dumbass decided to tell her about it. So I did and my girlfriend now denies ever saying it and she says that I ruined her family and that she hates me now. The worst thing is I dont know if shes lying or telling the truth, she said she wants me to burn in hell and wishes I'd die said she was gonna get people to jump me. It only hurt me worse and I think and hope I'm at the bottom of the hole, I dont think I can go any deeper....she also said she never wants to talk to me again but when i called she answered 2 or 3 times while she was asleep...I just want to die right now...please someone give me some info or if u need more just ask me pls. I just need my girl back that I love, and always will love. I need her back more than these words can describe, tell me things I can do to win her love back anything please, something so I can show her how I feel about her. She said she never believed I love her and it hurts that much more. Please Love shack help me I'm so alone right now.
sweetbutcheeky Posted May 3, 2007 Posted May 3, 2007 Before I read about you getting into her family business I was going to say this: If she said she needs time to think and be alone then let her do so, even though it's hard to wait to find out what will happen pushing and forcing a decision will make things worse. Though if you told her family about another member cheating and throwing the whole family into distress I don't know what can help you there. Only if she can forgive you that I can see any possibility of anything happening. Don't keep calling her, give her space and time.
misterc Posted May 7, 2007 Posted May 7, 2007 Sweetbutcheeky is right - time and space is important. Just think - today seems like the end of the world, but who knows about tomorrow? Cheesy i know, but has a ring of truth about it... just be yourself - if it is meant to be then she will come round and get in touch, if not then, and this is hard to hear I know, it is better to know now than later...by the way, with the family stuff, just do what you think is right, you aren't responsible for the family members' actions, you are just the messenger. for what its worth, i would have done the same as you...
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