discocrisco8 Posted May 2, 2007 Posted May 2, 2007 Hey all, I'm in need of some advice. I'll try to keep it short I met this girl in one of my classes, only once a week. I had asked to take her out, and she said that 'We should go out as a group so it won't be weird,' and apparently she's sorta dating this one guy who's in the same class. I called her the next day, declined her offer, and literally came out and said that 'I've got a crush on you and I'm not comfortable hanging out with you and him,' and she replied that 'Oh, we're not together exclusively, but imagine yourself in his shoes, some guy wants one-on-one time with the girl you're kinda dating.' She also said that she's not really lookin for commitment and it's just fun. He found out that I liked her too btw. Anyways, she's been busy, but I kept tryin to see her, and I eventually got my chance, last sat night. We went to the city, saw a comedy show, had dinner, then she came back to my place and I made her dessert. I've dated a lot and I've never encountered a girl like this. We literally got to know each other so well it seemed like we were on some other level. Towards the end of the night she had told me that she and the other guy haven't done anything, and that she said she's kind of bored with him.. I dropped her off, and 20 min later, she calls me to see where I was, and that she had so much fun, and not this much for years. On sunday night, we talked and I found out that everyone, her family and neighbors were askin about who I was and stuff. The other guy went over, saw the flowers I got her, they fought, but she basically said that 'they were going away together' and that she doesn't think we can talk anymore, at least not until after they're done and over with, because he's really jealous of me. She said that she was afraid of leading me on and told me that if the timing was better and that she was sorry for not tellin me that she had deeper feelings for him. Anyways, should I just wait it out? My friends say that 'she's just confused because she knows I like her, and that I showed her a much better time than that other guy.' A few are say to move on, and that if it's meant to be it's meant to be. I see both of them tomorrow night and I guess he wants to 'have a word with me' Thanks again for your help, sorry about it being so long!
Author discocrisco8 Posted May 2, 2007 Author Posted May 2, 2007 Oh, and I left out some details, but if you'd like to hear more to better help me, please ask! I feel like I'm rock bottom right now
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