too much too soon?

[sweetie91589]

i started seeing this guy a couple weeks ago, we hung out before i left for vacation for a week and had been talking for a while before that, we have a lot in common. When i went on vacation, we had just started thigns before that. We talked/texted every day while i was down there and he said he couldnt wait until i came home! When i came home, i hung out with him that night down at his school. He's not going to his classes right now but is just down there in his apartment with his friends. He said he wanted to come home with me for a few days and that i would bring him back befroe Wed because he had to work. For the most part things went really good, and he told some of his friends that i was his girlfriend. However, since he came home with me and we spent 4 days in a row together, not full time.. but somewhat, i dont knwo if it ruined things. It's not like he was home and we hung out everyday its only because he was crashing at my house for a few days so that we could hang out. When i droppe dhim off today it seemed like he rushed me out somewhat. he told me to call him when i got home, so i just texted him instead saying im home and im going ouit for a few call me later or something. he said ok. However, i've been hurt a lot lately and i just don't want things to get ruined. I'm hoping he's not planning on ending things because we spent too much time togetehr already. Should i just give him space and only wait for him to contact me? I'm just not sure if i should try to play the game at this point or not because, we are together. what do you guys think?

[jcster]

He asked to come spend time with you, right? I don't see how that could ruin things. If you detected any weirdness - he might have been tired - it's always weird to be away from home. I certainly wouldn't play the game right now as far as contacting him - If I were you I would just work on the assumption that he had a great time (which is probably the truth) and go on from there.