randuff Posted May 8, 2007 Posted May 8, 2007 I know what you are saying. My ex and I have seperate bank accounts linked together and I went on today and checked her balance.... $55.00....That's all she had. I wanted so badly to transfer a hundred bucks into her account because I feel awful about her having to scrape by until this Friday but I didn't. I stared at the monitor for like 10 minutes and even contemplated calling her to ask if she wanted me to give her some money but I knew she would refuse and I knew that it would just be an excuse to talk to her. You must remain NC with her if you want to get over her and move on. I have to do the same. She is calling you because she knows you will help her, don't let her take advantage of you and don't give in! I am saying this to you for 2 reasons. 1) It is the ONLY way to move on without continuous agonizing heartache for yourself and 2) I need to hear it for myself to be able to do the same. Just know that you are not the only one going through this and there are people in this world way less fortunate than we are. Tell yourself this everyday and maybe coping will become easier for you. If you ever need to chat just do so, God knows I need it as well. Oh and by the way.....DON'T ANSWER THE PHONE IF SHE CALLS OR TEXTS NO MATTER HOW BADLY YOU WANT TO!!!!!
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