ross37 Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 my girlfriend and i have been dating for about 4 months. We love each other very much and we are even getting an apt together for the summer before we head back to college in the fall. There is only one thing i dont like about her. Its her friends. Shes got this one friend named Ashley and i cannot stand her. She is probably the most annoying person ive ever met and also a liar. She lies about everything and tries to make her life seem so dramatic when its not at all. My gf has another friend who thinks she is the boss of the world and i really cant take that. I dont see her friends that much (thank god) but now that we are moving into an apt together, her friends will be over alot more. Should i say something or just keep my mouth shut?
Tangerina Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 Be polite to them and keep your mouth shut!!! What would it really help if you whine to your girlfriend about how you don't like people she likes? It will just put her in a weird position. My room mate used to have a tiny crush on my BF (nothing serious, just that he was one of the attractive single people we knew and I asked her if it was ok if I dated him) so obviously she didn't think he was icky, but when we started dating she resented him taking some of my time away and now she isn't that cool to him and let's me know she doesn't think they get a long and it doesn't make anything better for my relationship to her, her relationship to him, etc. Just go do something with your friends or go to the gym when you know they'll be over. If one of them does something outright mean or disrespectful then you have every right to talk to them about the problem you have with them, but if you just think they have annoying personalities be an adult and keep it to yourself.
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