Guest Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 I really love my girlfriend when have been together for almost 2 years, and we recently just went through a major set back. So I'm going to make this as short as I can with the key points, in timely order: 1) New semester in college made friends with this girl who was having romantic problems we where just friends and she asked me to move in with her I asked my gf she was supportive, and I guess I talked about her alot. My gf didn't appreciate this but being the type of person she is she decide not to say anything and just let it blow over. 2) During this time that I was hanging out with this friend of mine my gf got really sick for about 2 weeks for the first week she called me alot like twice a day and I often only talked to her for several minutes and let her go because I often wanted to keep busy(I looked as this as a good time to get stuff done while she was sick), then she stopped calling and a week went by before I heard from her and when I tried to approach her again like nothing was wrong she was pissy and grouchy torwards me and avoided me I had no idea what happened. 3) I got really frustrated because she was paying no attention to me and was talking to people alot on the internet and I thought she had something going on so I lost my temper on her and she broke up with me, we slowly started working things out and she said she wanted to get back together with me but she felt this was the only way she could make me realize what I was doing and how selfish I was being. 4) So finally we got to the point where I was constantly hounding her about stuff because I was paranoid and jealous that she might like another guy which she has never given me any indication that she was involved with anybody else(because she usually talks to guys on the phone ocassionally but she never does anything with them in person and there all good friends from high school, she has never cheated and never has given any reason to believe she would) So I'm a jealous wreck for no reason and she wishes that I was the way I was before we broke up. Because I called her like 5 times a day when werent together was I being to clingy? Do you think she really wants to be with me is she keeping me around for security? And now I feel like like 1 out of 3 times she never calls when she says shes going to and she is usually late 1 out of 3 times and she some times ditches me when we make plans not to often but sometimes. Am I being to clingy reading to much into this stuff or is this typical of a relationship this long. We are not living together and usually are together 3 nights a weeks sometimes more. Am I just a worry wart! With no life! Sorry for being so long.
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