Guest Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 I met a really great guy and didn't expect anything but a friendship with him. He had just recently moved because his finacee had died a month before and had no friends out here. We had everything in common and really sort of pushed hanging out with my friends. I figured, as the nice woman I am, that it would be harmless. Everyone loved him, he clicked instantly with them and things seemed fine. Long story short, he started pursuing me. Asked me over constantly just to watch movies and wasn't really making moves which made me feel like he was ok. There was definately some undenialable chemistry that started building up. He would started trying to cuddle like me we had been together forever. We would speak to me (without recipication) about futuristic plans, started promoting my friends band on his page.... just plain moving fast. If I wasn't with him, he would leave me messages about how much he missed me all the time. On Easter, I received some messages of how much he missed me etc but then late in the night he told me the day was hard for him and apologized for not being more talkative and how depressed being alone and missing someone who passed was. He then disappeaered. He read the two messsages I had sent him asking if he was okay.... he never returned them. I finally took him off my friends list and wrote him off but then I noticied I had way too many hits on my myspace so I installed a tracker. He views my page all the time. WHY? Why would someone disappeaer and still want to check up on you? Was it the whole grieving process and in some sick way I was replacing the company of his recently departed finacee? Thing usually don't bother me so much but it's so odd. I never had someone just up and disppeared without a warning. Yeah, sounds lame but it straight out baffles me.
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