chill chic Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 ok...I'm sure alot of you know about the situation with my f buddy awhile back. we had been seeing each other for over a year, while he lived here. we saw each other every week and pretty much every weekend. but it never developed into a relationship and I always wondered why...and I posted SO many threads about this guy it was crazy, because I was always trying to figure him out. well he had moved back home about 6 months ago for a job and to be closer to his family & friends. well..I contacted his old roommate/friend a few days ago because we have the same car and he takes it to a certain shop that I need to go to. so we got to talking, and telling him that he doesn't keep in contact anymore even though he said that we'd still be friends. and asking if he knew why he never committed to me, the whole thing. I mean he saw me cry a few times over him and he (the roommate) was trying to tell me something but I wouldn't listen to it, or whatever it was that he wanted to say. Well...my f buddy had told me once that his roommate liked me or was attracted to me, and I told him that I wasn't attracted to him, because I'm not. and if I did talk to him it was just because he has the same car I do. Anyway...long story short...we were texting each other lastnight because he wanted to meet up with me at a bar with him and my friends. but I've always been a lil iffy hanging out with him without my guy around, even now since he's gone. but we were texting back & forth about that guy because I had been drinking & was sorta emotional, and he told me that he'd want to tell me something in person instead, and that he had a few stories to tell. and then he (the roommate) said that he never wanted to do anything with me, just hang out as friends, because I was the one who always put that wall up. so...today he texted me today, and I still told him that I was confused, and he texted me back, and said "I haven't talked to him since the day he left, fyi-I think he might be gay" when he wrote that, I was shocked!! someone else had hinted that to me before, but didn't even know him. but the roommate told me to call him to talk about it. but since I've known that he liked me at one point (the roommate) what should I believe??? that guy even told me he has a girlfriend now, so what the hell?? maybe he's lying about having a gf? I could understand that he didn't want to commit to me then, but how could he have sex with me, and act like he liked me, was attracted to me, everything?? how could he do that to me??!! and why wouldn't he just come out & say it to me?? why leave me with heartache? or why put me through that for over a year if it is true??
johan Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 You know what? I have no idea. But I think you're one of the more interesting posters here. If you ever get your love life sorted out, it will be a loss to us all.
pelagicsands Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 But I think you're one of the more interesting posters here. If you ever get your love life sorted out, it will be a loss to us all. :lmao: Anyway, I can tell all on this thread a little secret. I'm gay. (Possibly transsexual, too.) But I still lust after Barbie. One just can't help oneself. Even the cutest arsehole in the world isn't quite a match for getting naughty with the plastic fantastic.
Pyro Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 :lmao: Anyway, I can tell all on this thread a little secret. I'm gay. (Possibly transsexual, too.) But I still lust after Barbie. One just can't help oneself. Even the cutest arsehole in the world isn't quite a match for getting naughty with the plastic fantastic. Don't lie. We know that you always had a thing for Ken. Nothing turned you on more then a plastic man with no c*ck.
Kamille Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 Chill Chic, I would suggest you turn around and walk away from both your f friend and his friend. A complicated situation, too many confusing questions and I don't think the answers will ever satisfy you. The fact your ex might be gay does not change the fact that he toyed with your emotions unfairly. You seemed like you were doing better lately. This is just a little relapse. big hug K.
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