darthturkey Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 is it ok to be in love with your best friend i met this girl back in early feb we hang out all the time , we do everything together we talk to each other allll the time shes the most inportant thing in my life i asked her out back in feb she said back then she dintknow me well enough and it was rushing it then again about 2 weeks ago ... she thought about it admited she liked me too but said she dint wanna ruin are friendship she said give it some time i was like ok a week later im like omg icant handle this not knowing! so we just decided to be best friends but now im thinking to myself is it ok to be like this ? i doupt i will get over her ...i cant ....i like being around with her ...we love hanging out ive never felt so close to someone .... we tease and flirt all the time like if i stop getting all clingly like and hugging ect she will do it too me! im happy being like this and i just want her to be in my life i dont even care if we dont go out or anything but is it right to be in love with her ..to never let go..to never get emmotionaly involed with anyone else .... i know as long as we are friends theres a chance something will happen but i just dont want anyone else being her friend, its like i have a girlfriend theres just no physical love there and tbh after all the girls ive had now ...i dont care anymore i dont need the sex anymore ...im happy with how things are anyhow any input would be great nice to hear someone elses veiw on this ....
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 I was just like you once. young, lightheaded, fancy free. until reality hit and I desired more from her. I was emotionally in love with her. Didnt care that she was kinda heavyset, but she dated jerks and kept me on a string crying on my sholder when she got her heart broken. I grew up and I gained alot of insight on who I was as a man and I felt shortchanged. Let's just say it didnt end well and we're not friends today. But on the upside I gained the confidence to mess with women I would have never even dreamed of talking to. I have my swagger back and I'm out of the friend zone. Dont waste time with a woman who cant give you what you need. u feel me? Holla back.
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