Kamille Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 Yup, it's finally happened, I'm dating someone I really like! He's attentionate, charming, bright, funny, and the list could go on. In short, I can't believe my good luck. I am trying to not freak out too fast about this guy. Thing is, tonight, I REALLY feel like hanging out with him. We always leave plans open and he's initiated our 3 dates, usually by showing up at the door. (He always asks what my schedule is like and works in my neighbourhood. He's dropped by a few times that I wasn't there and left a note). I went to see him at the record store where he works yesterday and we hung out for about an hour. My question is simple... I feel like seeing him. Should I call him or let him keep initiating the dates some more? Guys, how would you feel if a woman you went on three dates with called you up early on? I should add that I do feel like we have spent a lot of time together last week... Maybe too much. We've seen each other about every other day.
pelagicsands Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 I should add that I do feel like we have spent a lot of time together last week... Maybe too much. We've seen each other about every other day. "Too much" is a relative term. Call him. He can always say he's busy, no? The only rule is that there are no rules. Second-guessing yourself is usually a waste of time.
JCD Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 The two of you calling each other is the thing to do. One not calling and the other always initiating gives the other the impression that the other is not that interested. Each has to give their 50% to the relationship, imo.
alphamale Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 Guys, how would you feel if a woman you went on three dates with called you up early on? I wouldn't mind at all... I should add that I do feel like we have spent a lot of time together last week... Maybe too much. We've seen each other about every other day. in that case KAMILLE...you both should cool your jets for a few days and take a breather.
Author Kamille Posted April 30, 2007 Author Posted April 30, 2007 Thanks guys. A friend called and I ended up going out with her instead, but I am planning on asking him out to a korean restaurant tomorow night. I did need the breather.
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