skper138 Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 Friday as I was stepping out of a restaurant I hear my ex’s laugh and there he was coming around the corner with his new girlfriend (the girl he cheated on me with). I quickly turned and walked away. My heart completely chattered and tears automatically came down my face. I couldn’t help myself and completely broke down. Seeing him after almost 4 months was devastating. I still love him so much after so much pain he has caused me. Seeing him with that B made me feel like **** for the rest of the night. I don’t think he saw me but if he did he played it off very well. Yesterday and today I do nothing but think about him. It’s like going back to square one. Has anyone been through this situation? Some comforting words please….
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 It get's better with time. But you need to just stop thinking about him, do something that occupies your time. Hobbies, go dancing, talk to your female friends. There's gonna come to a point where when you think about him, your gonna feel nothing. a small pang but nothing. lol. It get's better. but you have to get strong. When your strong your gonna feel it when you walk through the day with a smile on your face. it'll happen. keep your head up shorty.
Guest Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 Skper, I dated an ex for five years. Then he broke up with me one night and I never saw or heard from him again. I met someone wonderful and have been happily married for seventeen years. Recently I ran into my ex in a movie theatre. I was with my husband, holding hands and happy. When my ex saw me he turned around and ran the other way. After that I was shattered that he never even said hello to me. I thought that I was over him as I hadn't thought about him since I met my husband twenty years ago. But when I saw him the hurtful memories all came back and that was after 22 years later. You are not unusual to be hurt when seeing him. It was only 4 months later and he was with another girl. That would have been very shocking indeed!
Sk8away Posted May 1, 2007 Posted May 1, 2007 Friday as I was stepping out of a restaurant I hear my ex’s laugh and there he was coming around the corner with his new girlfriend (the girl he cheated on me with). I quickly turned and walked away. My heart completely chattered and tears automatically came down my face. I couldn’t help myself and completely broke down. Seeing him after almost 4 months was devastating. I still love him so much after so much pain he has caused me. Seeing him with that B made me feel like **** for the rest of the night. I don’t think he saw me but if he did he played it off very well. Yesterday and today I do nothing but think about him. It’s like going back to square one. Has anyone been through this situation? Some comforting words please…. Hey Skper! Believe me, I know your pain! I think most of us can relate to being in that situation at least once in our lives--ugh! You did the right thing by walking away. I don't have any words of comfort (except to say that your reaction was normal and perfectlly understandable in that situation) but perhaps you can avoid places where you know the ex is likely to show up, at least for the near future.
JaneInVegas Posted May 1, 2007 Posted May 1, 2007 awww, I'm sorry that happened to you You've already had some good advice and I'm not going to add to it, but I just wanted to say I know how you feel, and yes it definitely gets easier with time!
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