littlebopeep Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 Its been 8 months since my ex dumped me and we have had very little contact in that time.(Hes away on placement for a year.)It was my birthday a few days ago and i got a text off his mum asking my door number. On the day of my birthday i received a card off his mum and dad and family saying i was a very special person and that they hoped i had a really lovely day which i thought was nice. Then i opened another card and it was from my ex saying he hoped i had an amazing day and that he was sorry he couldnt deliver it personally as he couldnt make it home. He had already sent a text on the morning saying happy birthday. I know i shouldnt have but i sent him a text saying he didnt have to send it but thankyou anyway.He then sent me 1 back saying i deserved it and he hoped i had a really good time,i never replied to that. Im 1 of the lucky 1s and moving on with my life but why oh why do exs do this.If this had happened a few months ago i may have read too much into it and maybe gotten my hopes up. I know there are people here who are still heartbroken over being dumped and very vunerable,thats why n/c is so important.I just think if you have dumped some1 then please leave your ex alone to come to terms with it,you are doing them no favours by contacting them.What do others think ?
Living_For_Me Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 I think when it comes to birthdays sending a birthday greeting is acceptable. I still send my exes that were a significant part of my life a birthday greeting.
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