Guest Posted April 29, 2007 Posted April 29, 2007 My friend can be very indecisive at times, and he talks the talk more than walk the walk...his indecisiveness can be very irritating. But other than that he's a very good friend. This concerns us being roomates and getting an apartment. Today I called him out to checko ut some apartments because there were open houses today and thats what we did. We've had this planned for about half a year, moving out and being roomies and all after graduation. And at the same time Im hearing all these new things Im hearing clearly for the first time...or these are excuses not to move out: He wants to save a very hefty amount of cash to be very financially secure before moving out, when I mean hefty, I mean hefty. And I get the impression sometimes he'd prefer to live alone (and have no roommates), he's kind of the solitary/introvert type. He said a couple of times that if i was devoted to moving out I shouldnt wait for him. And Im also under the impression, that the areas of the city he wants to live is different from mine - not completely far off but almost close. Simply put he's not a risk taker and loves to bask in security/stability. Im not a huge risk taker either, but when I decide on a goal - ill make it happen, no second thoughts. Nor do I like bragging about things that wont happen...and to think last year he kept gloating about being roomies with his unemployed friend living at home. Not to mention our time frame is within 2 months, I have a gut feeling he's going to back out or have different excuses when the time comes. If he's going to be indecisive, then I have no reason to wait for his decision since it appears he likes living at home anyway...
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