IfWishesWereHorses Posted May 16, 2007 Posted May 16, 2007 That is very sad indeed. I've talked to other BS's about their WS's complaining about money wasted on necessities like groceries while lavishing the OW with gifts. Another example of the abuse imposed on BS's. I've had quite a few of those "let's don't buy each other gifts" holidays. Let her mope and redesign her space in her overpriced leather.
harleygirl92156 Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 I have read all of this post and your newest post and I think you have a HUGE problem. I get the feeling you are the one with the stalking, obsession problem. You say you are "evil" and it appears you are quite proud of what you are doing to her. Maybe if you put as much effort into your marriage as you do to harassing the OW things would die down. You need to work on and take a hard look at yourself and leave this woman alone. If you weren't jumping in with both feet and playing her game right along side of her, she would get bored and tired of it and move on. Does you husband know all the shyt you are pulling on her to suck her in and keep her in the middle of your marriage??????
Author Ruby Tuesday Posted June 2, 2007 Author Posted June 2, 2007 Yes, I talked to my husband, my best friend and my father about it. I've made everyone aware of it in case anything happens to me. I dont care what you think harleygirl. What you dont know about this person is alot. I'm not the first BW she has gone after, I am BW#2. My best friend is her next conquest and this myspace page is just the tipoff and I WILL use that information to my advantage, with pleasure! I have had my myspace account for over three years. Hers is brand new. Whatever she puts online is out there for anyone to see, including myself. I'm not breaking any laws, either legally or ethically. You're calling me a stalker? Thats pathetic, but entertaining. I'd have to wonder why you were stalking all my posts today. If you want to shelter and baby your FWH and stick your head in the sand, thats your business. As far as I'm concerned I am not safe from this person and I will not turn a blind eye to it anymore. I will make it my business to get as much information as I can about this xOW to protect my own interests. Thanks.
justagirliegirl Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 It isn't entirely the OWs fault. You seem to act like she is an evil crazy home wrecker and your H is a saint. Your M was probably telling her the same line of sh*t every other MM tells the OW. His wife is a miserable nag and never gives him sex and blah blah blah. I do like the idea of making a profile of another girl and seeing if your H takes the bait.
justagirliegirl Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 What does FWS and FWH means anyway? f-k wad spouse and husband?
Author Ruby Tuesday Posted June 2, 2007 Author Posted June 2, 2007 Yes, lol thats right and probably more closer to the truth : ) Actually the acronyms are just used to differentiate a spouse that is having an affair (WS) from a (FWS) who ended his or her affair to avoid confusion. It keeps people from having to answer "is he still having an affair"? WS = Wandering Spouse FWS = Former Wandering Spouse FWH = Former Wandering Husband
harleygirl92156 Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 I'd have to wonder why you were stalking all my posts today. . You gonna go check out my MySpace page now to see if I am after your husband too......lol If you want to shelter and baby your FWH and stick your head in the sand, thats your business. Who said I sheltered my husband (what the hell is FWH anyway), oh yea, you in your messed up mind...I didn't have to shelter my husband, he had the balls to take care of the situation and so did I. OW knows she wouldn't DARE mess with either of us on no uncertain terms. That is because we didn't play childish, VERY childish games, instead confronted the issue and ended it. There are legal things that can be done to stop what your other woman is "supposedly" up to .....that is if it is true and if you really want to have it stopped. I doubt you do as you are obsessed with the "GAME" and are enjoying it far, far too much. Keep the game going, keep egging her on and you could find yourself in court again, which by the way, seems funny to me that YOU are the one who gets arrested and ends up in court but you blame her for all the problems.....hummmmmm......everyone should ponder that point..........GROW UP As far as I'm concerned I am not safe from this person and I will not turn a blind eye to it anymore. I will make it my business to get as much information as I can about this xOW to protect my own interests. Can sum this up in one word......PARANOID!!!!!!!!!! TO THE MAX........
harleygirl92156 Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 It isn't entirely the OWs fault. You seem to act like she is an evil crazy home wrecker and your H is a saint. Your M was probably telling her the same line of sh*t every other MM tells the OW. His wife is a miserable nag and never gives him sex and blah blah blah. YOU GOT IT GIRL.....I GET THE SAME IMPRESSION!!
Author Ruby Tuesday Posted June 2, 2007 Author Posted June 2, 2007 Evil... Paranoid... Stalker... hmmm, anymore comments you want to throw at me harley because I really don't care what you call me. You think too much of yourself. You (and your myspace page) are of no concern to me.
IfWishesWereHorses Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 RT has every right to be paranoid. Someone is trying to sabatage what she has worked very hard at. Overly paranoid, who knows for sure, that's the craziness of putting someone that you love into this position. Its like one of those diseases where the bodies homeostatic mechanisms turn tail and start working in the opposite manner and destroying the body. The intuition that one NEEDS to deal with the situation certainly has the potential to over aggrivate sanity and peace of mind. When ones head is shouting one thing and ones heart can't bare to hear it we tend to become our own worse enemy. This is gerenally a the BEST time to find some counseling so that someone can help you find peace in yourself before you make life changing decisions.
harleygirl92156 Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 Evil... Paranoid... Stalker... hmmm, anymore comments you want to throw at me harley because I really don't care what you call me. You think too much of yourself. You (and your myspace page) are of no concern to me. I take the paranoid and stalker, but YOU are the one that said you were evil, not me........lol
harleygirl92156 Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 Evil... Paranoid... Stalker... hmmm, anymore comments you want to throw at me harley because I really don't care what you call me. You think too much of yourself. You (and your myspace page) are of no concern to me. Then why did you lie on here and say I was stalking you on your MySpace page.........really how in the h_ll would I even begin to find your CHILDISH MySpace page......good grief. Again I give the same advice......leave it alone and she will get bored with it and move on and GROW UP
Author Ruby Tuesday Posted June 2, 2007 Author Posted June 2, 2007 The "evil" was quoting a "little nicky" movie. harley, please just stay out of my threads. You're O/T and trying to turn this into something it isnt. Youre acting bitterly vindictive and judgemental towards me (on my threads not on myspace) you made your point and now I just want you to just leave me alone.
harleygirl92156 Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 The "evil" was quoting a "little nicky" movie. harley, please just stay out of my threads. You're O/T and trying to turn this into something it isnt. Youre acting bitterly vindictive and judgemental towards me (on my threads not on myspace) you made your point and now I just want you to just leave me alone. Your husbands other woman probably feels the same way you do right now
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