gleason Posted April 28, 2007 Posted April 28, 2007 can someone explain to me why someone would just run after an e-mail to break-up. this was an extended relationship of over 10yrs. the last 4 long distance. suddenly, the mess.,was i'm not "there" anymore, etc. after numerous attempts to contact simply for me and some form of resolution..i am befuddled! i do believe there may be another woman present now, however, wouldn't the party want to settle the matter already. give some explanation...how can someone just run with no concern for how the other is dealing with the situation...no closure..no nothing, but avoidance. just superficial reasons why it won't work. never stated there isn't love, just again, i'm not there, i've given up, etc. but very brief, not allowing me to talk. i was told that he would call so i may talk, but hasn't. again why? why not just call and deal with it, and be done. this avoidance leaves me in a fixed phase, unable to move ahead. i simply feel i need to state unspoken things and know that they are heard. is it guilt? fear of feelings surfacing? i just don't understand if i want to end a relationship and the other is calling, writing, needing some form of final discussion...why not grant that? if i want it over, i would allow it and make a final call/discussion. i cannot even imagine leaving someone in this state...knowing their pain/confusion. i would at least offer a call. can it be deliberate hurt?
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