MikeC Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 I was pondering this today while I was at work. Is there a timelimit on moving on after a breakup? I don't mean emotionally, because the sooner the better. I mean regarding getting involved with another person. I have been broken up with my EX for 3 weeks today. 2 of those weeks I have emotionally moved on. Now, I am talking to 3 seperate women. 1 of which wants to get involved with me. I haven't put thought into it until now. I mean, if you recover, you should be fine right? Even after just getting out of a relationship? Thanks.
Icantletgo Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Let me put it this way: If your ex called you today and asked for you back and you say yes?? Then you haven't moved on and you SHOULDN'T get involved with the new girl. When you get to the point where you can say no if your ex BEGGED you for another chance..then you have moved on. Be fair to the girls you are going to get involved with. Tell them you just got out of a relationship. Please.
frd150 Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Hey Mike, Good to see that you are doing better. I would have to agree with icantletgo. I am in a similar situation with someone who i dated 4 years ago. We ended on mutual terms and have stayed on good terms ever since. Well the other night we went out (as friends nothing more) But i could tell there may have been a little more coming from her end. She is smart and she is fully aware of my situation and respects it. It would be very comfortable for me just to step back in with her but i respect her way to much for that. I will not view her as a convienence. So bottom line i cannot answer no on the question of wether i would take my ex back if she came back to me this minute. I do not know when i will be able to do that. I stll miss her deeply and i want her back. Be fair to these girls and ask yourself the question more than once. Good luck.
Author MikeC Posted April 28, 2007 Author Posted April 28, 2007 If my EX begged me to come back, I would totally deny her. I am over her, thankfully. Regarding the other women. They ALL know I just got out of a relationship.
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