smith604 Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Ok after my last post she called me on the 23 and told me that I should leave the cable on for her it also is the internet and that she still loved me after I told her im going to get the rest of my stuff and the cable was getting cut she would have to go get it put in his name or hers she said ok i dont know what i want still all i know is i love you and i wanna be your freind i will call you later today after i get the kid to school I havent heard from her since its been like 4 days i havent e-mail her and i havent called her even though it has been tough for me cuse i still love her and it hurts so is it better she hasnt called me and that i havent even tryed to call her?
directx Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 I wish you could have broken up that paragraph with some periods and structure, but you are in an emotional state and its understandable. If you were the last person to call and you are sure she got your message, you did all you can. She probably left you for someone else and is just too much of a coward to break it off (or maybe she knows you would get super emotional and is scared to deal with that). You cant make someone call you or convince them to. Sounds like its over
CaliGuy Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Ok after my last post she called me on the 23 and told me that I should leave the cable on for her it also is the internet and that she still loved me after I told her im going to get the rest of my stuff and the cable was getting cut she would have to go get it put in his name or hers she said ok i dont know what i want still all i know is i love you and i wanna be your freind i will call you later today after i get the kid to school I havent heard from her since its been like 4 days i havent e-mail her and i havent called her even though it has been tough for me cuse i still love her and it hurts so is it better she hasnt called me and that i havent even tryed to call her? Don't be her friend. She's not your friend at all. You don't want to be friends with her as it will keep you down. Go to NO CONTACT. Don't talk to her at all. Lean on your REAL friends, get involved in hobbies, work out, work on self-improvement, etc. There's nothing she can give you as a friend that you can't get from true friends. But hanging on to her CAN and WILL keep you down and delay your healing. Test yourself. See if you can go at least 2 months without saying a word to her.
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