Guest Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a year but still work together. We are friendly but I still feel a lot of pain from our breakup, and while most days are good, I still struggle to get over him. What had started out so amazing ended because he couldn't commit and just walked away. I thought he was "the one." I have been dating a lot but nothing had been too serious until I met a guy a couple weeks ago. For the first time since the breakup I feel that this new relationship could really work, and that I am finally able to move on. I have been really happy lately and the ex hasn't been on my mind. Then yesterday my ex started asking me if I was dating anyone, informing me that he had gone out on his first date since our breakup. I told him I had just started seeing someone but didn't really want to talk about it with him. He kept prying and proceeded to go into all the details of his new girl. He ended the conversation saying how nice it was that we were friends and could talk about these things, but I was left feeling so bad about it all. Why does he need to tell me he is dating? Why does he want to know all the details of my personal life and feel the need to give me advice? The last thing I want to think about is him with another girl. I feel like I am back to square one with all my hurt and anger from our breakup.
Guest Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 yah om gosh i am going thru the same thing, and it sucks. we see each other frequently and I am trying to be the "better person" by behaving decently but he also told someone that he's so glad we're both friends now and can converse. I am disgusted by him and ready to move on after he broke up with me, but occasionally he's talking to me like we are friends! It hurts so much to think "he's so happy we're friendly now" like our relationship was crap.
pleasure&painsws Posted April 30, 2007 Posted April 30, 2007 my supposed ex did that.... Well he kept on saying how he was with this chick the other day and crap and on and on. man this guys never shuts up. Oh ok back to the topic the only reason why he is doing this is really to feed his ego.... Serious its the only thing fueling his cruel games. The only way to get back at him is to not let him at anytime let him see you are at all affected by it.. Totally brush it off, just say "oh cool i hope this can go somewhere" just make it that you dont even give a damn. By doing this he sees that he does not have the spell over you anymore and chances.... are he will be chasing you to see if he still has that touch over you.... It may be hard giving off the vibe you are total cool with it, but trust me its worth it. it totally worked on my ex and right now he is still chasing me even after i have repeated to him i am over him. but its so nice to know it is driving him crazy lol heehee
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