single.31 Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Well i think 3.5 years is a typical number with all of us. My ex and i broke up feb 12 i know b4 v-day. I broke nc on valentines sending her roses...Sent her a voice mail saying i miss her and love her.. wishing we could work it out...that night she calls saying thanks for the flowers.. she said she would feel guilty if she didnt. SO..she says she has made her decision... this is where i turned into pleading. BEGGING. give me another chance alalalala u all know the rest.. Well it is difficult when you meet the family meet extented family overseas and everyone is talking marriage. So we end the conversation that night... A week later for some reason i decided to break no contact. AGAIN .. this time showered her with gifts a book on love languages and a book of apologies and some other gifts. I had those books in my car showing hey i am takin a step to learn to speak your language. WE definately had communication isssues.. later in that week i contact a mutual friend who she had been bad mouthing for a long time .. and told her well she doesnt really want to be a part of your wedding...I told her i am not doing this out of spite. I said if someone was talking the way she was about my wedding i would LIKE the truth! so My friend calls her asking her for a reason and tells me some Nasty things ie job not being good enough, being stubborn... you all know the lines. now march break comes by a few days later and she breaks nc.. " jus wanted to say sorry for talking to jane doe about our personal probs and such jus wanted to tell u that myself" next day i respond what did you mean by that txt , and why r u appologizing her response its ok dont worry about it my reponse ok that was in march and havent had contact since.. jus have a gut wrenching feeling its not over however.. when she broke it off she was cold as liquid nitrogen... hurting and moving on slow!
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