damned Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Hi everyone. I've been dating this girl for a year and two months, we live 200 miles away, so we only used to see each other on the weekends. I didn't treat her so good, she was my first girlfriend and I thought I had her in my hand, which was stupid and selfish. We broke up this weekend, after a huge discussion about me not changing anything. For the past 3 weeks, my neighbour and friend has started messaging her and calling her, and she seems excited about it. When we broke up, I thought about letting it all go, but two days later she said she hasn't forgot about me yet, and if I changed for real, then there might be a chance of us getting back together. She says she wants to be alone for the time being, and although she digs my neighbour she said she doesn't want anything to do with him. What should I do?? I have the most terrible doubts, because I don't know if I should really talk to her everyday and show that I care(i'm afraid of becoming her "friend"), or should I just give her some space and make NC at all? In this case, wouldn't she think that I just gave up on her and the relationship we had? When I go talk to her, she seems so distant, and there seems to be no effort on her side to make things better, she didn't even text me or hit me up on MSN lately! But deep down I know she still cares, I just want her to realize that and come back. PS: After we broke up, some girls added me on myspace and she was really angry, saying I didn't want to try anymore and just cared about my "new friends".
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