Confused610 Posted January 5, 2003 Posted January 5, 2003 I realized over the past few months that i am a compulsive liar , and have gotten help and now I don't lie anymore...but I've lied to my partner, about my religion, sexual history....and I want to come clean and tell him, how do i do it? Should i actually do it?
Patty Posted January 5, 2003 Posted January 5, 2003 The more you hide it,the harder it will be.The sooner the better.I say it would be good to do it and get it over with. Patty
Tony T Posted January 5, 2003 Posted January 5, 2003 The best thing you can do is talk to your partner, set the record straight, and start anew by being honest. A relationship based in lies will not last. The problem you risk is that if you have an extensive sexual history, you may alienate your guy. If that's the case, I really don't think you owe him any details at all. But in all other things, be very honest.
Author Confused610 Posted January 6, 2003 Author Posted January 6, 2003 Well, i told him last night, about the sexual past. Told him how i was abusively used, not details, but it happened. he was SO understanding, more then i thought so. real love really does help in the worst of situations!
Tony T Posted January 6, 2003 Posted January 6, 2003 Sounds like you've found yourself a pretty good guy!
Tolkien Posted January 11, 2003 Posted January 11, 2003 I was going to say the same thing, sounds like a keeper!
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