Summer2000 Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 I am not sure if I am posting at the right spot, but if anyone can help me out that would be great... I was dating a man whol lives 105 miles away from me, we broke up because he told me he was not falling in love with me and never would. He said its not me, its just for whatever reason he is just not falling in love with me.. At this point we dated a year.. So we were broken up fpr about 4 months.. He comes back into my life and begs me to take him back, he said he was scared I would just hurt him and he thinks that is why he was not falling in love with me.. so we got back together... Well I find out about a week later then he has herpies.. I go to the doctor and got tested and my test came back negitive.. We have been back together for about 3 months now.. We never have sex anymore, and he has yet to tell me that he loves me.. Do you think I should just walk away? I am just so confused about this.. He is 34 years old and I am 30 years old..
MikeC Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Just because someone does not say that they love you, does not mean they don't. Have you talked with him about issues on your mind?
Author Summer2000 Posted May 12, 2007 Author Posted May 12, 2007 People say once a cheater always a cheater, but I disagree.. People do change at times.. I like to give the benifit of the doubt. I know he will not cheat on me now, but its a scary thing to think that he is with me for the wrong reasons.. I have decided that I am going to end the relationship.. He is a great man, but I am not getting what I need out of this realtionship. I just have to find the right time to talk to him. Thank you all for your advise. Summer
krzr Posted May 14, 2007 Posted May 14, 2007 hes got herpes and issues and lives 100 miles away...move on
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