heavenly36 Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 I had an on & off again A with a MM over the last 3 yrs. I would break up with him because I couldn't handle being the OW. Each time he would sweet talk me and make more promises about us having a future together. He said he just needed time to get out of his bad M. I gave in every time. Anyway, his wife left him last summer. He begged me to continue to see him. However, he admitted that tried to reconcile but his wife refused. He said he wanted to keep the family together for the sake of his youngest son. This was shocking to me, because he always promised me a future. After his wife left, he said progress was being made and that we would be together (married) soon. Last summer he said the divorce would be final in Nov 06. In Nov 06, he said the divorce was filed and only their children knew about it. He & his wife would tell family & friends when the divorce was final. Recently, I asked him when the divorce would be final. He wouldn't answer and kept trying to change the subject. I asked him to show me the papers that were filed and he became nervous. Eventually, he admitted that divorce papers haven't been filed. His excuse is that he's waiting for an insurance policy to mature for financial reasons. I feel like such a fool. Today, he's been begging and promising a future together. He saying things like "I love you" "I want you to be my wife" "We can get married in Aug 08" I told him to F off. I so tired, this relationship is exhausting and I caught him in a few lies. What is it? Why doesn't he get divorced?
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