Lisa90 Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Hiya guys. I need some advice here. Me and my boyfriend were always arguing, but we love each other very very much. Around 2 weeks ago, he said he wants to just be freinds. I was heartbroken but went with that. We were talking eveery few days. The other night we spoke for a few hours and the conversation was just like when we were together. I said something about feeling close to him, and he said "in all honesty I don't feel that close to you right now, and the sooner you realise we're just friends the better" and so I acted like I don't care. We ended up arguing again, and I said I'm confused as to where I stand, he said he is too. He hung up on me, because apparently he knew what was coming if we kept talking. Then the next day he messaged me saying he was just doing what he thoght was best, that he speaks to his friends on the phone for hours often. And that we're either friends or we can't speak at all. I said it's okay that we're friends, but I'm not ready to talk to him for that amount of time just yet. I mean, we were speaking just like we usually do, so I'm well confused :s. He said we're just friends and we'll see what happens, and that he'll leave it up to me to contact him about speaking on the phone again. So I said I'd contact him in a few days or something. He has all the control, doesn't he?Or he thiks he does. I'm confused...what does he want from me? Is he just playing games? I would like us to get back together in the future, but know we need a break. I just dunno how to handle this situation properly, and he's confusing me. I dunno what he wants. Any ideas or advice?
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