beautifulwrongs Posted April 26, 2007 Posted April 26, 2007 Okay, to start off... There is this guy that is in his mid- twenties i am only 16 and he is married. He began joking around with me when I went into his work and stuff then one day I was up there and wanted to drive his car which is a stick so he said he would let me... I never really thought anything about him like that untill while i was driving i had to switch gears and couldnt do it so he put his hand on mine and helped me thats when i first got this feelings but i was like its just flirting type stuff so i didnt pay any mind to it. later that afternoon he called me which i didnt give him my cell number i think my ex did but he called and was like dont tell your dad i let you drive my car and i was like okay laughing starting that night which was a week ago today we have been texting each other ALOT he talks about how he wonts me to come see him at work, and how he misses me, he ask me question like do i miss him, he barely ever talks about his wife, but the other day me and my ex we are still friends went up to his house to eat with him and his wife and he still gave me some looks... and hes married!!! I really am starting to feel more than flirting stuff but i know hes married and doubt he would leave his wife for me even thou shes not that pretty but its the point i dont know what to do i konw hes 8 years older and i dont care my friend likes him better than all the other guys ive dated or liked and i know we couldnt really have anything right now but in like 2 years if we talk and stuff if something did happen between them there might be something between us? someone HELP what should i do? leave him alone? or keep going i feel something between us.. or do yall think hes just using me? even though he knows ive laid down the rules hes married that its nothing more that flirting since he is married so HELP ME
Sunset Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Please do not get involved, I beg you - it sounds exciting but it's not once you get in deep - it is horrible and the highs are not worth the lows. Stay single until you find someone who can give 100% or you will waste your youth in turmoil pining after someone who isn't there for you half the time. I have been there so am speaking from experience. You have to decide yourself in the long run but for my 2p worth stay well away.
Trialbyfire Posted April 27, 2007 Posted April 27, 2007 Duplicate thread, refer to this one. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t118183/
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